Previously, Dai Dai Thanthanida or Dai Dai Narumas the beautiful wife of Bew Chayapol younger brother of Gam Boom Preeyada, posted a fiery message on Facebook about bringing another woman into the home they bought together. She also shared mysterious chat messages between a man and a woman, causing many to wonder what had happened.
Recently, Thairath Entertainment Online contacted Dai Dai directly to ask about the situation, and she openly responded to all questions.
"The issue I posted about actually started on 31 Dec 2024 GMT+7. I found all the chats that day and felt it was disrespectful to me, especially since it happened in our home. Initially, I talked to him but he denied it. I had posted on Instagram before but deleted it. I reposted on Facebook because I had talked with him, but we couldn’t communicate properly. I wanted him to take responsibility for our child, to say something so I could understand his feelings about the child. I’ve definitely decided to separate, but he hasn't officially ended things yet. I just can’t handle it anymore."
Have these problems been ongoing?
"There was never a problem about other women before, but I don't know how many women he talks to because I never checked. Sometimes during his TikTok live streams, there would be PK competitions with women, but I wasn’t serious about those. This time, it crossed the line—bringing a woman into our home, which we bought together. That’s why I’ve endured so much until now. Mostly, it was about his outbursts, destroying things, and his extreme temper. I have tolerated this throughout our three years together, but this time I can’t accept it. It’s our home, and how could he bring another woman in?"
Also, his father said something inappropriate, questioning why I don’t live at home. To clarify, we live separately but are not divorced. He stays at his home; I stay at my condo. When we meet, especially for the child, we fulfill parental roles. We haven't separated officially but maintain personal space. However, he has used this opportunity to destroy everything I gave him a chance for.
Previously, I moved to live in the condo alone because of his hot temper and because our child was there. He destroyed all the things, so I had to leave for the condo. I just couldn’t take it anymore being with him all the time.
The reason we separated was because of his destructive behavior and outbursts while our child was present. We have been apart for about five months now but not divorced. We still see each other regularly and always meet on important days. The first one or two months, we didn’t meet much because I was giving him time to improve himself.
Lately, he has been trying to be better. He told me he would be a good, new person. I told him to prove it first because I didn’t want to tell anyone he had changed after so many disappointments. But he destroyed the chance I gave him by bringing women into the house and talking to other women. That’s what led me to post.
Is that when you saw the video of him posting a happy birthday message to you?
"Yes, that was around the time I moved to the condo. He came to see me and had an outburst downstairs, threatening the security guard because I didn’t invite him to my birthday. I was afraid the same thing from last year would happen again."
People have thought your relationship was loving all along. So you’ve had problems the whole time?
"Yes, we’ve had problems all along. His family has always known. When he does TikTok lives, especially when drunk, some people understand me and others don’t, wondering why I don’t come back and want us to be a family again. But no one truly knows what I’ve been through. I have left home many times, and his parents have been aware of everything."
What do his parents say?
"They are silent now."
And his sister hasn’t reacted to this?
"I haven’t spoken to P'Boom in a while. I didn’t go to her birthday but sent a cake and wishes. She thanked me, but we haven’t talked much. I once posted a video of him destroying things on Instagram but deleted it because I was very angry. He has a temper and is unusual in ways I’ve never experienced. I posted it but then removed it."
I felt that posting it made me uncomfortable about facing his family, not knowing how to act. I couldn’t pretend there. So I haven’t visited his family since we separated. Our child lives with me. I don’t want the child to be with his family because I feel my mother can help raise the child, and I can too."
Do you want to end things for good?
"I definitely want to end it."
Earlier on social media, there was a post about a star D. Did you think that was about you?
"At first, I thought it wasn’t me (and now?). Now, it definitely is me. Initially, I thought it was similar but not exactly me. Friends sent it to me, but it wasn’t. They said it was a man, but I don’t know where they got that news. My close friends know a lot about it. At first, I wasn’t sure if it was about me, but some things didn’t match, so I thought maybe not. But when pages named Dai Dai, then everyone sent it to me first. Maybe because I posted my own story, or because I couldn’t communicate well with him, that’s why."
Did you see the chat yourself or did someone send it to you?
"I saw it with my own eyes. That day, his phone was unlocked and open on Instagram. He was drunk and had gone to sleep. He usually keeps his phone with him, but that day I saw it lying there with the screen unlocked, so I wondered what to do. I decided to check the messages, took photos with my own phone before knowing what was there, just in case he woke up. I snapped photos if I saw suspicious chats, then reviewed them later. I put the phone back but found suspicious chats. I tried to take more photos but the phone turned off, so I couldn’t do more. It showed itself to me; I was confused too."
What will happen with your relationship now?
"No more relationship. Now, I’m trying to talk to him only about our child. But his response was like, 'You were raised in your home, so pay for the child there,' meaning he won’t take responsibility."
What does your family say?
"My father doesn’t talk to him or his mother anymore because previous talks didn’t go well. If there’s another issue, my father says to let the law handle it."
Anything you want to say to your followers?
"I don’t even know who my fans are anymore since I’ve been like this for so long. I thought I was too old to have fans. This situation happened, and people saw I’ve been through a lot, with both past and current troubles. I’m someone who wouldn’t speak out unless it was really serious."
"Thank you to everyone who has supported me. Since Bew does his live streams often, people misunderstand me as being harsh. I want others to see my side and understand what I’ve been through. I appreciate the support and messages I’ve received. At least someone sees it. They’ve followed me for a long time and seen how much I’ve endured."
As for Bew Chayapol, Thairath Entertainment Online has reached out, but he has not responded yet. We await his side of the story.
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