Netizens split into two sides after watching a clip in which Noey Warattha or Noey Neko Jump sat down for a conversation with her twin sister Jam Charattha on TikTok channel @jamponybahh about the question, “If your boyfriend asks to go to a massage parlor, would you allow it?”
Noey said, “For me, it’s okay because sometimes I’m just lazy. To be straightforward, the sexual needs of women and men are sometimes different. When a man honestly tells me, ‘Hey, can I go to a massage parlor?’ that’s fine. There’s no physical attachment or cheating. He’s just using the service to relax, like going to a spa.
It’s just a man thing. For me, I don’t feel anything negative. I’m actually okay with it because it means he won’t bother me. We’re clear about it. ‘Okay, you’re going to a massage parlor. If you’re there and secretly seeing someone else or chatting secretly, I’m not okay with that.’ For me, going to a massage parlor is chill, with no emotional involvement.
He doesn’t need to ask permission, just inform me. He can go wherever he wants, just let me know so I know where he is and what he’s doing. No need to ask since I’m not his mother. For me, he can go wherever he wants. I’ve even talked about this before.”
Jam said, “Suppose we have a child and I’m raising the child at home, and the boyfriend calls to ask if he can go.”
Noey replied, “He can go. That’s better than asking to go drink alcohol.”
Jam said, “Okay.”
Jam commented on the topic, “If it were me, if he asked to go to a massage parlor, I’d have to ask why he wants to go. What’s wrong with me? Am I not doing my part well? Is it about cleanliness?”
Noey responded, “It’s fine. It’s a professional service center. They should have proper measures.”
Jam said, “Are there risks of germs? Also, I’d question myself if there was something lacking in our relationship. If you want me to do something, just tell me. I’ll do it.”
Noey said, “It’s like changing meals. Today I want spaghetti, tomorrow I want basil stir-fry.”
Jam said, “No way. I could eat basil stir-fry with fried eggs forever. But if one day he talks to me like this, I might have to talk to him first. If his reason is something I truly can’t do, then maybe I’d allow it but tell him, ‘Okay, go, but if you cry, it’s okay. Just go.’ That’s my view.”
From the clip, many netizens commented extensively, saying things like: “This is just the beginning. Soon it will become an attachment and then an affair,” “I’m surprised she’s okay with it because of disease risks,” “It’s the starting point,” “No way, way too open-minded,” “Don’t lower your own standards,” “Sounds like she’s given up on her husband, no jealousy, let him go wherever with any woman,” “I can’t accept it; my partner is not anyone’s partner,” “Listen to this, it’s clearly the start of infidelity,” “Be careful he might meet someone pitiful and get hooked. A male friend told me this is how affairs start; going repeatedly to the same place can change a marriage,” “I accept it but will the kids accept it in the future?” and so on.
However, some agreed with Noey’s words, such as, “Why criticize those who think differently when you yourself don’t feel okay? I probably think like Noey,” “Couples who can talk about everything and have honest discussions like this are very rare and very good,” “She’s open-minded and people criticize her; everyone is different,” and so forth.
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