"Oh Pakjira" was opening up for the first time after being proposed to by her younger boyfriend "Beer Sornnath." He surprised her by kneeling to propose marriage and updated on their wedding planned for later this year. She also addressed rumors about losing weight secretly by using an injection pen, shedding nearly 20 kilograms in four months, all shared on the "Kuy Zaap Show" program on One31 channel.
What was the atmosphere like that day?
Oh said, "I had a feeling something was up because I noticed many friends acting suspiciously. It started with the outfit — why was I asked to wear white? Every year, friends take turns throwing birthday parties, and that day they planned to wear white. I quickly ordered a white outfit. But suddenly everyone said to wear pink, and everyone wore pink."
Who let it slip?
Oh replied, "I don't know who leaked it, but it ultimately came from my daughter. She went, and everyone went. It looked grand, and I wondered why it seemed so big. My daughter Saendee wore pink and told me about it. It seemed there were many outsiders involved. Usually, the party is just for us moms from the 'Mama Mouth' group (laughs), but that day there were many people, some friends from outside. I sensed something, but I didn’t expect it to be that big."
Was the one who spoiled everything the fiancé?
Oh said, "Yes (laughs). Beer asked me a lot of questions, but I pretended not to know. I felt the surprise was real that day. I knew something special was coming, and it felt like a wedding. I even thought, why not just get married right then and there and skip another event."
Saendee said Mom already knew everything, that Mom is clever, and she was the one who told Mom everything. Is the one who leaked it Beer’s relative?
Oh said, "No. I somewhat knew something special was coming but didn’t expect such grandeur — a grand kneeling, a video editing team, bridesmaids already arranged. It was huge."
Many thought that was the actual wedding?
Oh said, "Yes (laughs). Honestly, I wanted to get married then and there. It felt complete and beautiful."
What moment brought tears?
Oh said, "Beer rarely says sweet things. He’s a normal guy, not the romantic type, usually teasing. That day he was well-prepared, like someone briefed him on a script (laughs). I appreciated his effort — the kneeling and his words moved me."
What did he say?
Oh said, "I was a bit stunned, like I didn’t know what love was, but he was ready to spend his life with me. That alone brought tears."
Beer said they've been dating for over two years?
Oh said, "It felt like we’d been living together for three years. When I saw him kneeling with a ring, friends said, ‘Throw the bouquet!’ I said, ‘Answer him first!’ Then I heard May saying, ‘Not yet, not yet.’ I cried, then it was time to toss the bouquet, marking the end of that event."
What made you decide to accept the proposal?
Oh said, "I can’t say no (laughs). I know him well. I never thought I’d have a second wedding. I just wanted a friend to hold hands with in old age. But previously, he told me he wanted to marry and honor me."
Did he say that from the first year of dating?
Oh said, "No, not at first. It became more frequent later—maybe because he loved me (laughs). He said he wanted to be serious, that he would honor me and my daughter, so it wouldn’t feel like we were just living together."
Anything you'd like to say to friends?
Oh said, "If I get on stage, I want to thank the bridesmaids, especially Ning. When I asked about another event, Ning said she was already discussing with the wedding planner. I’m easygoing, but these friends are very organized — there’s also Oo and Hana. They are like the adults on my side. I even told Beer, when we’re on stage, we must thank Ning, Oo, Hana, and all the friends. Mostly, Oo and Ning are the planners, handling surprises. It was very touching. If I did it myself, I’d think it’s simple. Honestly, I felt like just getting married that day was enough, Beer said that too."
Did Fiat (ex-husband) come that day to congratulate?
Oh said, "When Beer talked about the wedding, I told my daughter. She probably told her father too. On that day, he came to pick up our daughter, so I told Fiat to come up since she was upstairs. He did, and I called them for a photo. It was a lovely picture, and netizens praised their good friendship."
Did Saendee say anything to you?
Oh said, "No, she sang. I told her I wanted her to sing. We talked about what she should do at Mom’s event, and we wanted her to open the event with a song. That was all."
Have you set the wedding date yet?
Oh said, "It’s October 18. We tried to pick the best time. You know how we decided? We asked Chat GPT. Hana checked for a good date. We felt this was easy and good. Beer just picked October 18. The pre-wedding photoshoot was in Paris."
Many say this has been planned for a long time?
Oh said, "No, it wasn’t planned, but there were talks. Beer was the one who suggested it. I went to Paris to pick up my daughter, Oo and Som were there. Oo suggested we take photos in case we wanted to have a wedding. I was tired and lazy, but Beer said, ‘Let’s do it, darling. I want to.’ I’ve been lazy to take photos my whole life. The photographer was there, Oo arranged it. I can’t do anything without them. Oo told me to go shoot. They picked out and steamed the bride and groom outfits. They said to take photos for keepsakes."
But you couldn’t keep it a secret because why?
Oh said, "Because of Beer. He’s the one who spoiled the surprise. He said, ‘Why? It’s just pre-wedding photos. Let’s post them.’ Friends scolded him, but Beer said he wanted to show their love."
Will you plan a new pre-wedding shoot?
Oh said, "Honestly, I want it easy. Having been married before, I want to keep things simple because weddings are tiring. My job involves beautiful photography, so I just use those photos and forget about it. Beer has never done this before, so I let him decide everything and just be his partner."
Is Beer excited about this?
Oh said, "People said we should go for fittings since March. Beer called Oo asking about his suit (laughs). Oo said, ‘Why are you so excited? Bridal gowns take time; groom’s suits are quick.’ Beer got excited. Everything was spoiled because of Beer."
So he wasn’t surprised?
Beer said, "I spoiled it myself (laughs)."
How far along is the wedding planning?
Beer said, "We’ve set the date, but the one planning more than us is Ning (laughs). She’s handling everything."
Oh said, "If you have questions, ask Ning or Oo, not me. I want the wedding to be whatever."
What kind of wedding photos does Beer want?
Beer said, "I have ideas, but in the end, I’m not the one deciding (laughs). When planning at Saimai, I chose, but ultimately, I had to go with what they picked (laughs)."
Oh said, "I told you, it’s a group wedding."
Ning said, "Ning, May, Fueng, Kratae, Supakson, Ae Porntip, Guitar, Ple Parde, Oo, Diana, Khaopod."
Oh said, "There were many people that day. This group was throwing a birthday party. Khaopod spoiled it during lunch, saying, ‘See you at the birthday party.’ I asked, ‘You’re coming?’ Many things were spoiled."
What kind of event do you want?
Beer said, "Just the bride and groom and those we love is enough. The style of the event doesn’t matter."
Oh asked, "After Beer decided, how was it?"
Beer said, "He doesn’t listen at all (laughs)."
Oh said, "He said, 'How’s the test?'"
Beer said, "Can I say? (laughs) He said it’s low class (laughs)."
Oh said, "Beer told me that he wanted a cheaper venue, but Oo scolded him, saying, ‘My brother is getting proposed to; you want to use that place?’ (laughs). But I’m easygoing. I didn’t expect a surprise proposal. I thought it was just a normal birthday party. I felt sorry for it."
You look outstanding and younger today. Is it just because of love? Friends say being near you makes them lose confidence because you look so good.
Oh said, "That’s an exaggeration. I feel the same, but maybe because I lost weight. When I lose weight, my face looks better. Plus, I had a new nose job, so people notice. Actually, it was gradual, but when I used the product, people asked if I had Botox."
Did you use injection pens?
Oh said, "We talked about it. I tried it for three months. When I debuted the leather outfit, many noticed. I went from 78 to 58 kilograms in three months. But I was serious about it. After talking with the product owner, I set a goal to see if it worked. I ate a balanced diet, rested enough, avoided anything that would make me gain weight, and cut back on sweets. Self-care needs help too. When I was overweight, I didn’t realize how far I’d gone. I was chill. Seeing myself now, I thought, ‘How did I get this big?’ (laughs). People hadn’t seen this version of me in a while, so it surprised them and me."
Any plans to have children? Does Beer want kids?
Oh said, "No, I told Beer from the start that if he wanted children, he could leave me and find someone else. But it’s too late now. After dating for a while, I said I really don’t want kids. I want to be selfish and just live as a couple."
Does Beer want children?
Beer said, "I’m fine either way. Whatever makes her happy, I’ll follow."
If it happens suddenly, is that okay?
Oh said, "I’d be upset. I really don’t want children. I feel we already have Saendee, who is my precious gem. This life is mine now. I want to live for myself. We chose this. I want to live my life and spend my money. I want to be myself at 50. Raising children is a sacrifice — from pregnancy to everything. I told Beer, let’s spend our money together or live just the two of us. It’s not that having kids is bad, but if I wanted kids, I told him before dating that he should find someone else. Now, I say it’s too late. He has to stay with me until we’re old."
Why does Beer agree to you not having children? Why is he so accommodating?
Beer said, "I have to agree with everything (laughs). Honestly, not having kids is relaxing in a way. No worries about children, taking care of them alone, traveling and living together. I think either way, we can be happy."
Say something sweet about Beer?
Oh said, "I say it all the time. I want to grow old and be together like this. I know he always tries for me and agrees to everything. But I’m not saying I never give anything either. There was a time he said he wanted to buy me something. Just hearing that shows his intention, and I’m grateful for everything he gives me. Am I shy? (laughs)"
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