They are a very close mother and daughter pair. Mother Tuu Nantida and Plaeng Chonmtida Recently, the two sat down on the 3 Zaap show on Channel 3 to openly share how they heal after going through a major love storm in life.
Mother Tuu shared her way of healing her daughter’s heart: "Our child is already in pain; we just have to avoid hurting that part further. We simply stay calm because no one wants such things to happen. But since it did, we just accept it. The most important thing, as Plaeng told me, is clear: she gave herself time to reflect. The most crucial part is self-reflection."
"It’s not about right or wrong, just recognizing what isn’t right or good enough and fixing it. As I said, every love starts with something good. I don’t tell my daughter to fear love, because love makes us happy whenever we begin it. But when love doesn’t last, we’re not the only ones who feel that way."
Mother always tells Plaeng, "No one cries themselves to death over love. Just cry if you want to. Feel whatever you feel. Even after six months, it’s okay to still feel like you haven’t moved on."
Plaeng said, "I feel there’s no need to block out good or sad feelings. Just let myself feel, be honest with my emotions, really feel them. If I keep them inside, they will eventually explode. So I let myself feel fully without holding back, and someday I believe I will find balance for myself."
Regarding many events that happened, she feels lucky and thankful because she always has home to return to—with her grandmother, mother, and a guardian group who are ready to listen anytime she calls. She also has friends and support messages from home. Mother said these are quiet strengths; some messages are very long, and she reads every one. This encouragement truly helped this woman get back on her feet. Some even sent postcards from New York and other countries. She sincerely thanks everyone for their support.
Plaeng also said she never realized how important family love was until a friend told her, "Do you know the day we start loving ourselves? And even when things upset us, we can get angry but don’t. That’s because we have full love within our family—from mother, grandmother, father, uncles, and aunts. Surrounded by love, it becomes a shield on days filled with negativity."
"Before, I didn’t know what it meant to love myself. But when I turned back, I realized this place is full of love. Good love is truly good. So we must give good love to ourselves. Everyone cries because of us, so we must love ourselves."
When asked if she is currently single and being courted, Plaeng said, "Not really, but I’m not closing the door. I just let it happen naturally." Asked what type of person she would never accept, she said:
- Someone unaware of themselves, who doesn’t understand their own life issues, emotions, and mind. As long as they don’t understand themselves, I can’t heal them because it’s their responsibility to heal. This is one condition: they must know what past experiences affect them today. They might have childhood wounds. We’re running after something unknowingly."
- Love must be based on understanding, honesty, and respect. This sums up what Plaeng said to P'Noom last year, a statement she still stands by.
- Lastly, I ask to be a priority after his parents and family. If I am a priority in every decision he makes, I will always be in his thoughts. He will not undermine or neglect my feelings.
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