Girl Surisada the older sister of Grace Chalida immediately posted a strong rebuttal after Art Itthichot Sasomsap and Aey Thanyawan the high-society woman posted their own clarifications regarding the cheating and third-party issues.
Girl, as Grace's sister, posted as a mediator in resolving past problems and spoke about Art refusing to take responsibility, choosing to lie and shift the blame onto Grace, and never defending his own sister.
She also addressed Aey Thanyawan, saying, “Wait a moment, I will teach you manners. Don’t make yourself look like a victim when you are the one who caused it.”
“As a sister—not only Grace’s sister but also as Art’s sister—everyone is part of this relationship. Through every argument, I have always acted as a mediator, along with friends who have been with us throughout.
The problems between Grace and Art are issues that any couple might face. The wounds caused by lies and infidelity are difficult to heal, but they have tried their best all along.
Before Art proposed to Grace, I asked him no less than three times if he was sure—considering the relationship and everything that had happened. I asked if he could accept the consequences and was ready to move forward because this is a major step in building a family.
I asked Art until he turned to me and said, ‘So you don’t want us to get married, right?’ I said no; I just wanted him to be sure about this important decision. Art said, ‘I’m sure.’ So don’t use past problems as an excuse.”
The last time Art brought up the issue, Grace didn’t even know what he had done or when. He said he didn’t understand and told her there was a problem.
She had to ask me when it happened. I spoke with Art one last time to try to help solve the problem as I always had before. But this time, I told Grace it was over. I didn’t side with Art like before because I sensed he had someone else.
Two days later, I messaged Art asking if he had someone else and told him not to lie to me. Personally, I can understand if someone slips up; it can be fixed. But Art chose to continue lying until everything was exposed the next day.
What I hate most is his refusal to admit wrongdoing and his continual shifting of blame to Grace from the start until now. The only thing Grace kept asking me was, ‘What did I do wrong? When did I do wrong?’ Not only did he blame himself, he also blamed close friends as the cause of their relationship starting. Anyone with a conscience who is about to marry wouldn’t tolerate public exposure like this. Don’t blame anyone else.
Since then, Art has never once defended Grace in any way. He continues to try to make things his way, regardless of the ongoing consequences for Grace from his actions—both what he does and says behind her back. If society knew the details, they would condemn him even more. Let’s not get into that.
Art says he cannot change the past anymore. Yes, but what I see him doing now will become a past he cannot fix later. He chooses to continue bad behavior, apologizing without admitting fault, and apologizing while still blaming Grace and others. Anyone reading this would feel disgusted, and that’s without me reading it. Has Grace’s family ever apologized? Before my mother passed away, Art told her, ‘Don’t worry, I will love and take care of her.’ It’s not just Grace who has been broken by Art’s lack of restraint.
Let me tell you, don’t think money makes every woman happy. Don’t think money is the highest goal in life. Some women just want a good husband and a happy family. Not everyone is materialistic or drains money. Art is not the only wealthy man who pursued Grace. Many richer men tried, but Grace wasn’t interested because she wanted to spare Art from the heartbreak he had experienced before. Don’t undervalue my sister’s worth.
For me, the most valuable thing is ‘time.’ It’s an asset that cannot be measured. Time and the opportunity cost to live a happy life are not that simple.
If you want a new start and tell everyone to move on, remember no one forced you to do anything, and everything has a price. I don’t hate Art; I hate what he has done. If he makes Grace cry again, refuses to accept the truth, denies what he did, and doesn’t protect Grace as she deserves, I will be the one to protect my sister.
As for Aey, wait a moment, I will teach you basic manners. You don’t have only one set of parents, and don’t drag them into shameless actions. If your parents can’t teach you, society will. Don’t cast yourself as a victim when you are the perpetrator. Don’t ask for sympathy if you’ve never shown any to others. You will get what you did.”
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