After Kungploy Kanittharin Patcharaphakdichot the former wife of Noom Soram Theppitak responded back to Bum Panadda regarding the issue of imperfection after Kungploy live-streamed crying, referring to herself as a thief who stole her husband's money, and apologized for not being born perfect.
Bum Panadda read this news on the show Tok Mun Banterng and kindly advised Kungploy,"Don't use that phrase.Don't blame being born imperfect. You should say that you made a mistake, feel remorseful, and won't repeat it. That way, people will think more highly of you."
Then Kungploy responded to Bum saying,"Is it not okay to say people are imperfect? Is it wrong to say 'imperfect'? Please ask P'Bum—I saw you reading my news with interest."
Most recently, Bum Panadda clarified this issue again so everyone understands she did not intend to criticize Kungploy but was simply worried about Veeji not growing up surrounded bytoxicsocial media news, opening up in an interview with Jack Green of Thairath Entertainment,
"It’s a phrase she used in her clip saying she mustblame her own imperfection. Actually, frankly, it’s out of concern that I spoke that way because I don't want her to... First of all, wrongdoing—whether stealing or harming others—cannot be excused by poverty or personal imperfection. If that were true, would all poor people have the right to steal or harm others nationwide? That’s not right, is it?"
So that’s why I warned—no one is born perfect, not even me. I’m not rich either; I work hard too. So don’t blame imperfection. Some people told me not to meddle, but this is reporting news. Maybe it wasn’t complete when I read it, but I was struck by the phrase 'imperfect.' So don’t use personal imperfection as an excuse. No one is perfect.
Even many wealthy people born with riches may not be happy in life. But imperfection is no excuse to commit wrongdoing against others. Don’t blame that. I think I speak from the perspective of someone with a legal background. It’s not right to blamefamily imperfection.Don’t blame others; blame yourself.
Secondly, I’m even more worried about what she said because I see Veeji as my nephew. Everything she says or posts, and whatever Noom Soram replies or posts back, it’s all on social media, and that’s between the child’s parents. Someday when he grows up, he will see all this on social media—what his mother said, how his father responded. That’s not good for him.
I didn’t intend to criticize harshly. If it feels like criticism, then it means she is not reflecting on her own faults. It’s not about blaming others or harshness. I just told her not to blame imperfection; it’s not criticism.If it were criticism,it would be more like: 'You made a mistake; you have no right to say such things.' That would be criticism. You have to distinguish. If you can’t, then don’t speak.
Honestly, I don’t want to comment more because some people want to make it an issue, or if you can’t criticize at all, then don’t warn such people. I’m not focusing on her personally. I want to speak from the perspective of many who feel low about their imperfect lives. I speak for others: don’t use imperfection as an excuse for wrongdoing.
I didn’t come out to speak, just to report the news on the show. I was struck by the phrase 'imperfect'—blaming that, blaming this—it must be blaming yourself. Doing wrong is doing wrong, not an excuse.
Do you want Kungploy to adjust anything, since you know Noom Soram?
Oh, if she’s using this approach, I dare not advise her. I won’t interfere. I just had to report the news that day, and I hope it serves as an example for others who feel incomplete. Many don’t understand I don’t want to meddle or criticize. No one is criticizing anyone. If we did, it would be about wrongdoing. We give chances to those who make mistakes, but not to blame everything without seeing your own fault.
If Kungploy listens and responds to Bum, what would you say?
If she stirs controversy, that’s her style—she thrives on drama. I’m not surprised. I’m not interested. I just don’t want Veeji to grow up surrounded by unresolved toxic social media content.ToxicityThat’s all I want to clarify so social media users understand.
