After the situation regarding her love life began to improve recently, Grace Chalida Sotthiwanwong, the younger sister of former antagonist actress from Morchit Channel, Giff Darapada, and Girl Surisada, a woman outside the entertainment industry, posted on Instagram Stories inviting fans to ask questions they wanted to know after just ending a 7-year relationship with a wealthy young man, Art Itthichot Sasomsap, which was followed by much drama.
When asked, “Are you feeling much better now?” Grace replied, “Right now, it’s like 7 years ago. I’m happy with myself, I take care of myself, enjoying life a lot. It’s like dying alive and being born again. When no one was there, I lived well. I’m just back where I started but much more mature. Don’t worry, I have family and friends around me who are amazing. I don’t feel like I’m missing anything at all.”
When asked, “Will you open your heart to someone new trying to date you soon?” Grace responded, “I’m not closing myself off but I’m not rushing. I’m okay being alone. If I have someone who’s not good, I’m fine being alone now.”
There was also a request to review Girl, her sister, with the question, “Can you review your sister Girl? And how many years apart are you and Girl?” Grace answered, “We are siblings with very different energy. She’s like always running, while I take things slowly. She has a very positive outlook, truly one of the best I’ve ever met.”
When I have friends with serious life problems who can’t get through it, I pass them on to Girl, asking if they want to talk to her. She offers perspectives no one else has given and is always happy to help my friends with any problem. That’s just who she is—always sincerely willing to lend a hand to everyone.”
No matter which path I choose in life, she never forbids me. She lets me experience and choose for myself. But every time I fall, she never repeats or says, ‘See, you should have listened to me.’ She’s someone you can turn to anytime. No matter how hard life gets, she always helps lighten every burden.
No matter how stubborn I am or what mistakes I make, she always teaches me from childhood to now. She’s never tired of teaching me again and again—or maybe she is, haha. @qirlsurissada, you know I’m quiet and reserved, so Girl is the complete opposite in every way.
Girl is extremely rational about everything. Her love is something I could thank her a million times over and never be enough. I truly say she is the most precious gift life has ever given me.”
When someone said, “No matter how much you’ve fallen, some people still envy you. I wish I had a sister like Girl. You’re so lucky, Grace,” she said, “I really am lucky. She’s the best gift of my life, and I wouldn’t trade her for anything. I’m also lucky to have all my online mentors. Thank you very much from the bottom of my heart.”
Regarding the question, “What is your current perspective on love (in all dimensions)?” Grace replied, “It’s the same as before. If I truly choose to love someone, I value my own people greatly. No matter what is lacking or excessive in a relationship, I give my person my all. Because if we keep looking for what’s missing or what we want elsewhere, we end up searching forever since there’s always something better or newer.”
No one is perfect, no one is 100% good, and no one can satisfy us completely. We also don’t satisfy others in every way. Once I’ve chosen, I don’t feel the need to look for anyone else. No one can replace or come between my person and me. When we love and understand each other, everything is easy, but real life has many tests and lessons to learn.
Today, we might face love where letting go is easy, or one day we might find love where no one ever lets go of our hand, or maybe we never find anyone to hold our hand at all. But that’s okay. Whatever happens, my perspective on love remains the same.”
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