After finishing the show 'Hon Krasae', the female singer "Farida Elizabeth T." gave an interview to the media, opening up again about the feedback she received after appearing on the show, where many viewed her as an easy woman and questioned why she didn't protect herself after meeting "TinTin New Country" or "TinTin Charatsawi Thiamrat." Farida revealed that she appeared on the show not to defend herself but to protect the dignity of women, confident in her own evidence.
"I wasn't defending myself or my child; I was defending the dignity of women, of fellow women who have gone through the same thing. Today, I came out to speak on behalf of many women who have experienced similar situations. That's why I spoke on the 'Hon Krasae' show today."
May I ask about the timeline of what happened between us? What exactly is the timeline?
"The timeline is a bit mixed because I was excited and spoke about it in circles. The first time I met him was on the 5th, as he said, and then on the 12th. But his timeline had mistakes. I met him again on February 20th, then I flew abroad. This is true because I had a friend with me that day."
When did you first get to know him?
"It was around his debut. I got to know him through a friend and we followed each other on Instagram. But at that time, I wasn't serious with him; we just liked each other's posts. We started talking in November last year."
He said you were the one who direct messaged him first?
"Yes, that's true. He had released a new song then, so I sent him a direct message."
Between November and February, was there any point you felt you were a couple?
"He would message me saying he missed me, wanted to see me, asking me to come quickly, things like that."
Was there ever a statement like 'We're officially a couple'?
"He said it verbally, not in chat—meaning over Instagram calls."
What exactly did he say?
"He would say things like 'I miss you, come see me, darling,' things like that. So we thought of each other that way. Many people have experienced this too. I said on the show that I don't know who his real girlfriend is because he calls everyone 'girlfriend.'"
Did you have anyone else you were seeing at that time?
"No, I didn't have anyone at all then."
During the three times you met, did you not use protection?
"No."
What reason did he give?
"He said he was 'finished' (did that happen all three times?). The first time, he said he was finished. The second time, he said he didn't buy any protection, nothing like that."
As a woman, were you afraid something might go wrong?
"Yes, I was afraid. I also took emergency contraceptive pills, but it was too late; I got pregnant."
After that, did you take any medication?
"I was advised to take medication every time."
At that time, you consented because you felt he was your boyfriend, right?
"I trusted him."
After appearing on 'Hon Krasae,' comments were mixed. Some were on your side initially but now think the case may be turning due to the evidence. Are you worried about this?
"I'm not worried because I know there are always two sides. I was prepared for the backlash from appearing on 'Hon Krasae.' I knew some would support me and others would side with the man. I accepted that. Also, some things everyone heard on the show today, I learned at the same time as the whole country."
Do you want to say anything to those ready to attack, his fan club, or those who think you're lying?
"I want to say that it's okay to support your side, but please do so with reason. Don't blame me or accuse me of flying abroad to see another man. I really don't have anyone else. I already said on the show that I have no one else but him. The details are clear. I dare to say that I only talk to and date one person at a time."
Do you think this might be due to resentment that is being taken out on TinTin's circle?
"That's unrelated. I know people around the male singer have similar misconduct, but if others are exposed, it's not because of me. I'm saying upfront that I'm not the one doing that. I already have enough problems. If others are exposed or revealed, it's not me."
What about the claims that he has relationships with people in the industry?
"That was said by his ex-girlfriend. I don't know about that; I learned about it with everyone else."
What are your plans moving forward?
"I want him to take responsibility. I don't know if he's listening now, but I want him to truly take responsibility because I've suffered a lot from this, including condemnation from his side of society, with many calling me an easy woman."
"I want you to look at your own people. I'm not defending myself but protecting myself and other women. I am a woman, and I don't want anyone else to suffer like this. There are many victims; many have reported to me. Just the issue of the child is enough. If we were to talk again, I would say no."
But as a mother, you want your child to have a father?
"Yes, regarding child support and such."
Do you think he is mature enough to take care of your child in the future, to be chosen as the father now?
"I don't know yet because his behavior is still the same."
If the day comes when your child is born, would you want to tell them the reason they were born?
"I will wait until he asks who his father is, then I will tell him."
How stressed are you now? What fears do you have for your child?
"I try not to read comments because some people harshly insult me. I've chosen not to read comments or go on social media lately."
So from now on, you will prepare to be a single mother?
"Yes."
Do you envision how your future will be?
"Right now, I can't see myself as the best mother yet, but I won't allow my child to have that kind of behavior."
What advice would you give to women who might encounter men like this?
"I want them to protect themselves and, when a man messages you, research him carefully. Check if he is seeing someone else. Being involved with someone who is seeing others and having unprotected sex is very dangerous and risks many diseases. Women shouldn't have to face this."
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