The situation quickly drew the attention of those who care. Fluke Thitikorn came forward to reveal chats exposing the behavior of Kru Sin his wife and ex-girlfriend, stating he tried everything to save the family, but both the husband and wife would not stop.
Recently, Kru Sin the wife of Fluke posted a long message presenting a perspective many don’t know about her husband’s behavior that made her unwilling to continue. She apologized for her mistakes and confirmed the ex is not a mistress, but they resumed talking after she separated from Fluke. Kru Sin wrote:
"I will post only once.
I have never spoken out or shared family matters publicly, so no one knows what I’ve been through because I never cried in front of anyone or posted drama. I am the head of the family, so I have to be strong. Even when deeply hurt, I didn’t dare to cry.
So please don’t judge me just by what others say. I accept my mistakes, but I don’t have to endure unhappiness my whole life. I just want my life back. I gave so much to him, did my best, and cared for him even when he treated me badly.
Being a woman who had to be the family’s pillar despite having a husband is truly exhausting. I just can’t anymore, and I can’t keep the family together. I really endured for the children many times. I’m sorry if I’ve disappointed many people.
I did talk to the ex about work, accounting, and life advice. There was no romantic talk. We met after breaking up with Fluke. We never had sexual relations. So calling it an affair is too strong; we were not lovers. I admit it was wrong to drag others into this.
According to the posted chats, I announced our breakup and assured my contact, “I sleep in the same room as Fluke but in separate beds. Don’t worry, nothing is going on. Even with you, whom I love, nothing happened, so no need to worry.” It’s clear that I and the ex never had anything.
I have tried to keep the family for the children several times. The first time was New Year 2016; I wanted to reunite for the kids. Seeing the kids happy on the trip, but soon after, we fought again. He chose to pack and leave, not talking for 2-3 hours, then apologized. But I felt it was over. He was still hot-tempered and wanted to argue to win.
The second time was recently. I wanted to take the kids on a trip because they really asked. The kids even called him to say they wanted to travel together to maintain the parent-child relationship and were serious about adjusting. So I messaged Fluke’s contact and apologized. I’m not possessive; I want to do this for the kids. Sorry and thank you to Fluke’s new partner.
But afterwards, I was wrong for not feeling love for him anymore. I told him I was serious about coming back for the kids, but my heart was unhappy. We should separate. I really have no feelings left for Fluke. Sorry I can’t do this anymore.
Why did I lose love? As I said, I am the head of the family. I was exhausted. Throughout our relationship, I took care of everything—expenses, things he wanted. I paid for as many cars as he wanted. He made demands and argued if I didn’t comply. He got a Harley-Davidson.
After I gave birth, he often went out, didn’t help care for the kids or me, never assisted with work. He wanted sports cars and Porsches; I bought them. He wanted a car care service, but I said it wasn’t worth it. We fought over it, spending 1.4 million baht, but it failed because he wasn’t serious, didn’t visit the shop, and didn’t care.
I created a clothing and soap brand for him, but he didn’t care, so it failed. He wanted a van, to renovate, asked for money, musical equipment, and a rehearsal room. I bought all that, spending hundreds of thousands. He said he couldn’t do it, didn’t listen, and as I said, it wasn’t used.
I gave him a monthly salary without fail, the least being 50,000 baht and sometimes up to 200,000 baht. When we fought and considered separating, I had 1 million baht in my account and transferred half, 500,000 baht, to him. We reconciled, but he never returned the money. He only asked me to transfer about 50-60 thousand baht for the Norah School tuition. The rest disappeared.
After a month, he asked for another salary. He said he had no money for concerts, so I transferred 30,000 baht for emergencies and travel. Later, I found out he gave the money to his father as a loan, which I have yet to be repaid.
The worst was the engagement money. His mother demanded 1 million baht; he offered 200,000 baht, and when his family refused, I worked while pregnant—selling products and using my savings to raise the remaining 800,000 baht to reach 1 million.
I feel ashamed to speak about this publicly, showing I was worthless, but I was pregnant and had to take responsibility for my actions.
During my pregnancy, I drove myself to work, leaving early and returning late daily. Meanwhile, he lived his life—partying, gaming, staying up late, waking late. Until the baby was born, nothing changed. He didn’t help with work or child care. He only changed after I lost my love.
I asked him to change; he improved for 2-3 weeks, but then reverted to being selfish, emotional, and we argued over even small things. When I no longer loved him and he moved out, living alone, he finally changed—became diligent, worked hard, and visited the kids. But when he returned, I felt it was the same as before. It was too late. I was heartbroken by his words and actions.
Our fights escalated every time, and the last one was too much for me. I was bruised all over. We exchanged harsh insults. I told him I always wished him well. I still paid his salary even after we separated, honoring my promise to give him six months’ salary after the previous major fight. The last salary I gave was in April 2016.
I created a ginseng cream brand and invested in the first batch so he could have income and a career teaching accounting and money management. I set up live sessions for him to continue his work.
Regarding the children, I allow him to pick them up at the front gate with a nanny. I want the children to feel their father’s love. I never obstructed and encouraged the kids to love their father deeply.
I have apologized and accepted responsibility every time this topic came up, and I am very grateful that this exposure helped me gain recognition and expand my dessert business.
From now on, I want my life back. I want to live my life. I accept all my mistakes, but please let me have a way to earn a living to support my children and staff. Please don’t criticize me. I really gave my all—everything a person could do. I never wanted to air family matters publicly. This will be my only post.
I apologize again if I have disappointed many people.
I never spoke about these issues because I wanted both of us to have a way to earn a living.
Actually, the conflicts happened long ago, but he brought them up again because he has no money. I want to ask if the sales from my work are truly what makes him proud?
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