Hai Arpaporn opened up about her past love story. Mother Hai Arpaporn revealed that her ex-boyfriend cursed her to never have a lover or sexual relations, wishing her to be numb and blocked because she refused to marry him. She believes the curse has come true since she has remained single into her fifties. If that man is still alive, she plans to bring a bai sri offering to ask for forgiveness, hoping to have a partner later in life.
In addition, Mother Hai updated on the health of her close friend, Sunaree Ratchasima. After recently being discharged from the hospital, she said Mother Su now takes very good care of herself and has completely changed her habits. As for Mother Hai, she remains strong because she also takes good care of herself.
Regarding the curse from the man that caused numbness?
"I keep checking, and I can still urinate normally, so it’s not blocked. But he really did curse me because he was truly angry. He disappeared for six years, then came back to propose. After four years of visiting each other, I told him it wasn’t love because I never loved him. He said I had promised him ten years ago that we would marry, and because I refused, he lost that opportunity over the past decade.
He met many good people during that time. I thought no one would wait for me ten years, but he did. When I rejected him, he cursed me not to have anyone truly love me in this life, to never have sexual relations, to be numb, and to be blocked.
So now, I can’t have anyone. I’m over 50 and still alone. I think the curse might be real. If he’s still alive, I plan to ask for forgiveness and bring a bai sri offering.
About three years ago, we still talked. He said he had forgiven me and joked that if he died, we could haunt each other. Since then, we haven’t been in contact. This time, if we connect, I want to properly seek forgiveness so that maybe I can finally have a husband in my later years."
If he wants to come back to you?
"No, no. If he’s watching, I want him to know I’m truly sorry from my heart. I never thought he would wait that long. I really apologize and thank him for waiting, but it’s all in the past now."
How is Sunaree’s condition?
"Right now, Sister Su is taking very good care of herself. She needs to look after herself well. After meals, she goes for walks and exercises. She’s in the senior group now, so it’s right to focus on self-care. She likes very spicy food, heavily seasoned. I don’t know if that relates to her condition.
Even though she cooks for herself, dishes like spicy stir-fried field mice or frogs are common foods, but when she prepares them, she really piles on the seasoning. I only eat them occasionally, but she eats them daily, which might affect her intestines naturally. The test results have come back.
She looks cheerful, so hopefully it’s nothing serious. It’s probably because eating spicy food caused tumors in her intestinal lining. The doctor removed them and said the results are okay."
What did she say when you warned her about eating too spicy?
"I told her she has to completely change her eating and lifestyle habits. She loves cooking for show and is happy doing it. Now she has to cut back, including me too. I really take care of myself and remind both Tak and Sister Su to do the same so they don’t get sick. Recently, Tak posted that she was ill, Sister Su was hospitalized, but I’ve been working hard without problems because I balance my life well.
I sleep as soon as I can, rest even while traveling, and try to be an easy sleeper. If I don’t get all five food groups, I take vitamins. My work is voice-based, so before bed I drink lemon water with May honey and salt.
Every morning I gargle this way. Diseases are very close to us, so I want everyone to take care of themselves. Staying healthy is a great blessing. Anyone can get sick if they live wastefully and neglect their body. It’s natural for the body to weaken."
In April alone, I had 45 engagements and I’m still alive. Many ask how I can keep going. I have full energy but lose my voice, which is normal because I use it a lot. This month, by the 5th, I already have 8 engagements. For aerobic shows, they want me. So I’m preparing for an aerobic concert, as clients requested not just to watch me sing but to join a full hour of aerobic dance. I have to think about singing and dancing for a full hour—wondering if I can manage it. Starting 10 August, the show will feature singing and dance leaders on stage, with dancers leading the audience to do aerobic moves together.
It’s a new dimension. I have to get really fit. I think my muscles are well-conditioned now. Doing one or two shows a day, I’m not tired dancing anymore, which means my heart is strong. This month alone I have 8 aerobic shows. I can still move my joints well. At first, I thought I couldn’t manage, but here’s a tip: for those with joint pain, like me from wearing high heels daily, I eat pork and duck tendons, which are great collagen sources, and duck tongues, which are excellent."
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