"Cee Siwat" A talented actor, today excited about his niece. "Nong Gemma" Just one and a half years old and greatly adored—has he changed his mind about wanting children? Also shares about his wife. "Amy Klinprathum" A skilled drinker who has thrived, living as a couple for 21 years with daily arguments, even walking off a show once. He reveals his journey to becoming a host through a major life turning point on the show "Kuy Zaap Show" on One31, hosted by DJ Putt Puttichai and Ning Panita.
Looking more handsome?
"Just recently had some procedures; I did all I could (laughs)."
Life is very happy, with a niece named Nong Gemma now living at home?
"Actually, I have other nieces and nephews too, but this is a much closer relationship. My elder brother's children live in the south, so I don't get to see them often. But I've seen Gemma since birth; we live together and are very close because Amy is close to her brother. I feel she is the most beautiful living being in the world, even though she’s not mine. I wonder, what is this child? Why can I look at her all day?"
Maybe because he doesn't have children, Gemma fills that gap?
"It's not about having or not having your own child; I don't know how to answer. I used to enjoy watching koi fish for two or three hours, yet I can't explain this either. When I look at my niece's face, she's just adorable—I can't explain it. She's a gift, whether from God or angels. We invited her parents to live with us, made a room for the niece, and they live here too. I don't want to miss any moment because she grows up so fast, day by day. I don't want to miss out."
Ready for children?
"Very ready. The only thing missing is having children of our own; everything else is fine."
Then why not have children?
"We've talked about it. I've said on many shows that I do want children, but wanting alone doesn't make it happen. Being a father is easier than being a mother; the mother bears many burdens. I don't want to push that burden onto my wife. It's not just about saying 'I want children' and that's it. I would be spoiling the child, playing and then going to work, but the mother has to carry the pregnancy and care for many things. So, I won't push these responsibilities onto her if she's not truly ready."
A happy family or perfect life doesn't require children. Living as a couple and seeing the niece brings happiness. He feels he has found his greatest happiness because he is not the parent; he doesn't have to raise her to be a good person. That is the parents' role. His role is simply to enjoy the niece, playing with her whenever he wants."
Enjoy the niece, then return her to her mother?
"Yes, I'm not the parent but a caretaker who provides food and shelter. I have the right to enjoy my own niece—playing, hugging, carrying, taking her places. That's my right. Amy is the same. We both enjoy fully. She fills the family, including grandparents. When she returns, just seeing her smile at us is so adorable."
Would having a child at home change your mind about having children?
"Not at all. No need to discuss it again. Amy and I agreed clearly. We are happy as we are. I'm 44 now; if I had a child who's 18, how old would I be? When my child graduates, would I be in a wheelchair? That's tough. Now, I want to go out with my wife, party, and not worry about anyone. We're happy and don't want to revisit that."
After deciding, it's final? How many times did you discuss it?
"Many times, but seriously about two rounds. We agreed, 'Okay, you.' She said yes. Then I had to contemplate how to proceed because my happiness doesn't depend on having children. Being with the person I love most—that's her. Whatever brings happiness, I embrace it. It's not selfish to say, 'Why don't we have kids?' I feel that's unfair."
Have you discussed old age plans? Where will you live?
"I don't know. There are many good wellness centers in Thailand. We're considering several places. Honestly, I've never thought about relying on children or grandchildren for care. These communities are great, with hospitals and all amenities. We plan ahead so that when we're old, our assets won't just sit idle. We'll leave them to children and grandchildren—just don't fight over them. I've prepared everything, have assets and income for old age, and Amy and I will enjoy our time. Whatever the kids want, they can take."
Married for 21 years?
"Together for 21 years, married about 8-9 years, dating around 12 years—I don't remember exactly. Amy always scolds me. Altogether, 21 years since we started dating at 23 or 24."
Do you argue daily? Are your arguments scripted or genuine?
"We argue for real, even on live streams. We are everything to each other—not just husband and wife but also friends and business partners. We can talk about everything, from how she looks to zipper issues. We wear many hats simultaneously—spouses, friends, business owners—which blends work and personal life. It's like how Putt and Jui work; they chat normally but switch modes when working."
You mentioned that the longer the relationship, the harder it gets and patience decreases. What does that really mean?
"Let me explain. Many say that over time it gets easier. That was true before, but nowadays it's different because social media and increased independence for both men and women affect things. The longer you're together, the harder it can be because ego is expressed most with those closest. We tend to care more about others than those near us. It becomes difficult when you forget who you should care about most—the one beside you who stays through good and bad."
When people forget this, biases grow and respect diminishes, making things tougher. Repeated small annoyances accumulate, especially when love fades and respect is gone. In my view, for people today, the longer together, the harder it gets. So, never forget your beginnings and the journey of your love. Take care of each other's hearts—small things like saying 'I love you,' physical touch, listening. Never prioritize others over the one closest to you."
You deserve a national husband award?
"Honestly, I still argue with my wife every day."
Men come in many types. You understand and try to fix things. Others say they understand but never change despite being told repeatedly?
"If you’re like that, you don’t deserve to be with anyone. If you say you understand but deep down don’t want to understand or change, then no. Thank you for the compliment, but I am a different person now compared to 21 years ago. It’s because of constant efforts, experiences, and our journey together. We never stopped trying to improve."
Never let go?
"Exactly. I’ve had my best and worst times, but we still give each other chances and forgiveness. People don’t really change; their nature stays the same. But we choose to adapt and change if we want to live life together with our partner. 'Partner' means both of us. Some people wait for true love but forget they must be true love for their partner too."
You often argue in live streams. Confirmed real arguments? Sometimes Amy abruptly leaves the show?
"Not sulking. She manages anger differently—she doesn’t hold it well; I hold it better. Her way, which works for us, is to get upset briefly then let it go, but that takes practice (laughs). We argue often but don’t play games with each other. Our arguments come from working together and having different opinions because we work together. We don’t play games; she doesn’t either."
For example, if I argue with Ning, we don’t play passive-aggressive games. We show dissatisfaction, but each understands the goal is a good outcome for both. There might be some ego, but why sulk in front of the team? My team has been shocked several times. But more surprising is that five seconds after arguing, we’re fine again. I’m not lying; that’s how I am. We must understand that ego hurts no one. The ego wants to win; if you win, the other cries. But isn’t that person someone you love? What do you gain? A flag? A house? Land? Nothing. So, if the one you love loses to the world but beats you, so what? It’s nothing."
After many reflections, another turning point that changed your thinking was becoming a host?
"That was definitely important. Becoming a host changed me because I had to listen more than talk. Listening lets you see and learn from many lives. I think hosting is the only profession that lets you meet many people and experience new stories filtered into one hour—their whole life condensed. We receive only good things that we can apply to our own lives."
"So hosting supports and builds my life. It supports by providing income and builds by introducing me to good people, making me a better person. No one becomes worse by meeting good people. When hosting, I encourage others, but their stories inspire me. I only gain, never lose. This made me think more and grow because hosting requires reading, keeping up with news, and listening."
"Some may doubt my words, and that’s fine. I’m not a relationship guru. I’m speaking from my own journey. I’m not saying my way is right for everyone. You must know how to deal with your person. Importantly, don’t compare. Don’t think, 'They do this better; why can’t you?' Don’t do that because if you see others as better, you shouldn’t be with your partner but with someone else. You should give each other chances, adjust gradually, and walk together."
You’re highly regarded in hosting, having worked as a replacement for P'Ta Panya?
"Not exactly. It was during a transition. I had just joined Workpoint and said I wanted to become a better host. I wasn’t looking elsewhere. I felt Workpoint was the only place to develop my hosting skills. I took every opportunity and did everything they offered because I brought nothing with me—not even my fame as an actor. I just liked a show called 'Chan Phan Dao' and accepted all assignments."
When you got to host 'Ching Roi Ching Lan,' many worried about comparisons. Were you concerned?" "I set my mindset that to be good, you must do a lot, not just know a lot. You learn by doing. Let them compare. Everyone has the right to compare. My goal to improve was to work with the best. How many chances do I get to work with our seniors like P'Mum, P'Teng, and P'Nhong? I don’t aim to replace P'Ta; no one can replace anyone. I can’t replace P'Ta, especially in that show. I don’t aim to be P'Ta’s replacement. But my role is to be the host of 'Ching Roi Ching Lan' as Cee Siwat, and no one can replace me either."
What do you mean by 'drinking until succeeding'?
"Actually, that's wrong. The one who drinks and succeeds is my wife. Many don’t know she’s been like that since her days as a Kantana actress, but people didn't know she was that type. We used to gather after filming before social media existed."
She drinks but not excessively?
"Excessively. Where else do you get that? She climbs on tables and transforms. My wife has been like that for a long time. But with social media, I want everyone to know my wife is a mischievous person. I've seen it for over ten, twenty years and want others to see too. She hasn’t changed at all."
One side of Amy you’ve always seen but others haven’t?
"Yes. Now, wherever she goes, people say, 'Oh, Amy’s here.' Believe it or not, my wife never pays a baht at bars because everyone insists on buying her drinks (laughs). She loves to drink and gives her all."
Married 21 years but don’t often say 'I love you'?
"I actually say it to my wife all the time because the only certainty in this world is uncertainty. I've lost my parents, and what I long for most is to have them here with me. So, even small things, I encourage everyone to say 'I love you' daily to those they love. Love you, my dear wife."
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