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Detailed Steps to Apologize to Parents at Home, Enhancing Auspiciousness for the Thai New Year

Belief06 Apr 2026 15:40 GMT+7

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Detailed Steps to Apologize to Parents at Home, Enhancing Auspiciousness for the Thai New Year

In Thai astrology, "Songkran" marks the moment the sun enters Aries, signaling the most powerful start of the new year. According to ancient beliefs, receiving this positive energy requires first "cleansing impurities" and "seeking forgiveness" from household monks or one's parents.

Thairath Online presents a detailed guide on how to apologize in a way that can transform a previously troubled destiny into smooth progress, as if resetting your life on Songkran.

Songkran Belief: Why is asking for forgiveness from parents especially "powerful" and "fortunate" on the New Year?

April 15, known as Phaya Day, is when the gates of heaven open and is considered the most sacred day of the year. Thus, apologizing to parents on this day carries significant spiritual weight.

  • Resetting one's destiny by asking for forgiveness means cutting off "karma of negligence," referring to any past wrongs against parents, whether intentional or unintentional, which may block good fortune.
  • The power of blessings: Words from parents on the Thai New Year are regarded as "sacred speech" that supports and uplifts your destiny, making success come more easily.
  • Enhancing your aura: Those who show gratitude and apologize to their elders develop an "aura" or positive charisma that protects them from harm or misfortune.

Preparing items to apologize to the "monks in the household"

1. A new basin filled with clean water scented with flower essence (jasmine, rose, marigold) and traditional Thai perfume water.

2. A new towel for drying feet.

3. A tray with incense sticks, candles, and a garland of fresh flowers.

4. Turmeric and sappan wood water (if available), a northern belief for warding off bad luck.

Detailed steps for apologizing and washing parents' feet

To gain maximum merit, follow these steps in order:

  • Have your parents sit on a chair while you sit on the floor at a lower position.
  • Recite a prayer, beginning with three repetitions of the Namo phrase, then say, "By my body, speech, and mind, if I have ever wronged my father or mother, knowingly or unknowingly, openly or secretly, please forgive me."
  • Wash and dry their feet by gently immersing them in the prepared water, showing respect, then drying them carefully.
  • Present the garland and ask for their blessing by placing the garland in their hands, then allowing them to place their hands on your head to give their blessing.

Strong spiritual benefits! Remedy for life obstacles

Performing this ritual on Songkran is like "clearing the path of life." For those who have experienced failures or financial leaks, the power of gratitude will help ease finances and bring unexpected opportunities from superiors at work.

Asking for forgiveness from parents on Songkran is more than tradition; it is a spiritual strategy that builds morale and great auspiciousness. Starting the Thai New Year by doing good with close family is a more direct and effective way to enhance your fortune than visiting multiple merit-making places.